little Alfie (my youngest son) is JUST like his mother!
STUBBORN
No matter whether its just assembling his LEGO or getting himself dressed,
He’s ALWAYS been the same
He hates being told how to do something,
loves nothing better than proving people wrong
And completing a tasks without ANY help
I suppose it’s a family trait
The problem with this?……
Tbh, it CAN be a good thing
It makes him INDEPENDENT, which I think is great!
BUT
there IS a bad side too!
Take for example the other day….
He was trying to fathom out how to use a new app to create movies on the ipad
As i was trying to help him, he kept pushing my hands out the way….
Pressing every button he could, until he found out how to work it
Instead of just waiting and listening, He’d rather STRUGGLE until he worked out how to do it
Yup, JUST like his mother!
Anyhoo, after sitting back and watching him it made me think…..
So many people do the SAME thing when trying to shed FAT
I see people STRUGGLE all the time
In fact, one of my best TIPS i give to my new clients when they first start is….
Don’t be frightened to ASK FOR HELP!
Get this….
Believe it or not, the closest people in your life,
(Normally your friends and family)
Are actually the WORST people in the world to RUIN your diet and your progress!
Have you ever heard….
“Go on man, one won’t hurt!”
“Just start fresh Monday man”
Or
“You look great the way you are”
“I love you no matter what”
The fact is, these people sometimes do this to justify their own LAZINESS
And the fact the you’re trying to do something positive, can sometimes make them feel GUILTY themselves!
So, here is the dealio……
If you are STRUGGLING right now,
Do me a favor….
Sit down with the closest people in your life,
EXPLAIN to them WHY it is so important to you
And ask for their HELP!
I guarantee, when they realize how IMPORTANT it is you…..
You’ll get waaaaay more SUPPORT
Trust me it works!
The other solution?
SURROUND yourself with super motivated people seeking EXACTLY the same goals as you…..
Join our team today
The support is second to none!
Darren ‘Here to help’ Tyrie
Aka MrT